Yesterday we went out to dinner at Cracker Barrel. Three small children in that restaurant is NOT a good thing. There are just too many things to get into. I was blessed that they waited until we were on our way out before saying the words all parents dread, “I want . . .”
The stuff that they wanted was either giant candy, nick knacks or other items that are not needed (and definitely not wanted) around the house. Does anyone really need a 10lb Sugar Daddy?
The answer is no – and it was for us last night. Even though the kids brought their own money we still said no to the purchases that they wanted to make. It is important that they understand how to make wise purchases with the money that they have to earn.
It takes practice to be able to say no in these situations and it also takes hearing the words to make the kids accepting of the word. Start practicing with yourself and it will be easier for you to use it with the kids (and the kids will be more likely to accept the change if they see a change in you first).